Possum I thought of that but they live in diff spits , hes in my neighborhood , close by he lives to me , she's in another state , not too far , I think she may come in for the wk , I don't know if she's living here now and I have no way of finding out without involving others and I wont do that I'm a private person , plus I think she knows who I am ��, so now its very uncomfortable , def can't talk to her , I'm stuck bad and I can't take a earlier bus , I live I a area where buses take long time , the bus before is too early and I have before work so the bus I take is last bus I cam take I'm in a bad spot��