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Originally Posted by rcat
This gives me a bit of insight into your situation. Why are you getting into relationships where there are already differences between the two of you?
Have you in the past found yourself in relationships just for the sake of being in one? I am pleased however that you are obviously realizing the connection is wrong for you and getting out of them. Well done.
I've said before that opposites can fit together quite nicely; that the sharing of one another's interests can enrich a relationship. But, it must be an equal give and take. With that said I am trying to tell you that being different from your partner may not be a bad thing. It's when one party attempts to turn the other that it is problematic. Has this been the case with past relationships? Have you felt unable to share or participate in your own interests?
Finally I want to tell you not to settle, and not to give up. A great catch may come along.
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To answer the first question. I'm not seeking any relationship currently they sometimes run into me when I don't want them or when I do I get uncomfortable most of the time
To answer your next questions very much so yes some were alike and others were opposites but all were frustrating. I used to get into relationships out of convenience and settled to quickly like 4 years ago. I stopped since, because ik what I like and the person even though I liked them alot they were horrible and abusive never had a say. So I am fine now, but it's like I want someone mutual not one sided. Something that feels familiar but not bad for me.