I am not explaining this situation correctly and i apologize I just can't tell the whole story and I'm sorry for that. I know if I could tell the whole story it would be easier to understand , I go out but I just am careful , I don't want to run into her or them together , so I go out of neighborhood , its not like I always stay in , but this is something very painful and not something that wont ever hurt. I just cope with it cause I don't have a choice , its not that he wont speak to me , I know he will eventually , I think hes just having a tough time and I think maybe he doesn't know how to face me , hes not good with his emotions , he struggles / doesn't know how to deal with stress so he avoids situations , I think he may feel guilty because he knows I'm a good friend to him and he disappeared , its happened before and he came back . Hes not a bad person , please know that , he is dealing with alot of stuff , that's why I think sometimes he doesn't realize stuff till after , deep down hes a really really good person. Ps , we sorta had something more than friends at one pt , the story goes way back .