Trippin he made the first move whereas the more than friend part goes so you were right on that �� I think he may think because if the friendship it couldn't work and also because of certain things he deals with . I know he said if he can't tell the person hes with it wont work , its too important not to tell a partner , he struggles to tell me , he wants to but can't bring himself too��, so I'm thinking that could be the prob he told me so much and we invested so much in this relationship that I think why would he bring me into his life and trust me with everything and tell me personal stuff NO One knows if he didn't want me in his life ? Hes a good guy so I know theres more to this , hes let on that much , I just dont know whole story��