I am also very confused.. If your unable to give outmore details and maybe a time line then your probably going to get advise that isn't really what you need or want to hear.

I will say this.. situations are "usually" not as difficult and confusing as we wind up making it our head. I overthink things to the point that I make a mountain outta a molehill .

I am not invalidating your feelings... I'm just not sure what you wanting in the way of support about your confusing situation