OK - Saw him today. Why do things always seem saner in person? Anyways, he's worried about boundaries and me wanting to become friends - he wants to have a professional relationship. He's redefining a little: now he's an MD, but he said that he likes to treat all his patients like co-workers - that's the way he works. He's concerned that I want someone to talk to and be friends with and he can't do that. This feels dangerous to him - the boundary problem. It makes him feel like he has to protect himself. Anyways - nothing seemed amiss today in person, like I said. Maybe we shouldn't talk on the phone when he's tired or just when he's tired or worked up. Hmmm. OK - still feeling confused, but not concerned/worried like I was. I think my pdocs not sane. To take off on something he sometimes says: he's in the ward next door.