Very good points

And I am VERY familiar with all them but they missed the big one: "I was sad once too", or "everyone feels sad now and then"

This is roughly the equivalent of telling someone with epilepsy that you have a slight tic now and then, a cancer patient that you had a really bad cough or someone who lost a leg to diabetes that you stubbed your toe once and are pretty sure you broke it!

AAAAAAAAAAGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHH!!!!