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Old Oct 02, 2015, 12:48 PM
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Well its simple.


What you do is, you take the bus just like you do everyday.


So what if you see her?


It hurts, you feel uncomfortable, and then you get to your destination.


Yes you may not want to start your day off on a sour note, but life isn't fair. Not to anyone.


You can always implement a plan to self-sooth, afterward. Take a brisk walk before work, have your favorite beverage or read something. Idk, anything that will help get you into a different headspace so your work day can begin on a lighter note.



Sharing a bus with her is not the end of the world, it wont cause you to spontaneously combust, so you certainly don't have to start walking to work to avoid her, because that's honestly just being ridiculous.


Some things in life are unfortunately hard, uncomfortable and down right painful, but we won't get anywhere trying to hide from all those experiences, because we end up stunting our growth and maturity as human beings.


Put on your big girl panties and show her what you're made of, claim back your bus.
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