I've wondered, when you are dealing with someone with contradicting behavior, does that mean the person is fake or something else usually going on? Someone I know has this problem. One day the person may say she is not annoyed about something or may like something, then next thing you know, it is the exact opposite, then back again. In other words, she could say she is not annoyed with you, then say she actually was annoyed with you, then later on say she really was not annoyed with you. Or when it comes to jokes, it is okay for her to make certain jokes but if someone else does it, she gets mad. Also gets mad when someone politely asks her to stop doing something that is inappropriate such as non stop texting in the middle of a one on one conversation, yet she thinks it is okay to just accuse others of stuff or assume things about others that are not true. Also gets really pissed if someone bails in her, even when they let her know and for a good reason, yet thinks it is okay for her to do it to others. This person has depression so I'm not sure if this is related to that and her state of mind or just fake behavior. I have even tried giving her space but then she would say that is not necessary or a messed up thing to do, but then accuse me or others of being clingy. Yet she has signs of clingy behavior herself, which led to the downfall of a relationship last year. Just confused at what could be wrong.