It when my wife thought about a divorce, and I realized what I had done, and went to see a psychiatrist, and placed on meds that work. At some time you just have to decide which one is not only needed, but what would be best to do. I dropped l-o-t-s of money in out of control manic way in less than a year. If you are in a marriage, not (Google) 90% of Bipolar marriages end in divorce - no ****. To be in a divorce, and to be broke, would be hell. Guessing a wife would have the grounds, and because the husband is a stupid spender, the wife would deserve most of the property after-all.