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Originally Posted by SarahSweden
Itīs a long story why she terminated me but it had to do with a couple of opinions I had on things that happened in therapy. Things that made me disappointed and hurt. When I told her how I felt, I e-mailed her about it, she became dismissive and suddenly she said she was hesitant about continuing therapy.
I was very shocked and sad about hearing that, I thought she would use my opinions and try to solve them as it wasnīt about her as a person. I felt both ashamed and very sad and I couldnīt handle meeting her. She was very vague and one moment she said we would talk on the phone and we scheduled a time for that. Then after that she offered a meeting instead by text but then it had gone so far and I was so upset and in dispair I couldnīt meet with her.
We just ended practical things on the phone and from that day on Iīve missed and mourned her.
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I'm kind of in that same boat. Now all of a sudden my T is trying to get me to talk about my hurt related to her, but I'm afraid to, because I'm afraid she'll send me packing. She knows I feel that way. And even though she says she won't, she changed boundaries after I told her something in February that pertained to her, even though the assured me before I told her that "nothing will change HERE." I just can't believe her.....so I'm afraid to talk about it. And talking about it wont' change anything. Although, for the first time in 7 months, she told me how sorry she was during my session yesterday, and said she learned a "hard lesson" and will not be doing it again. I should be able to move on now, because that's all I really wanted. For her to admit that she hurt me, and to try to save other people from having the same thing happen to them. I'm afraid the hurt will never go away completely.