Then here's a couple from the few months afterward (note that this is my experience--your mileage my vary!)
For the record, things are generally good and secure with MC now--still see him for marriage counseling, but he's been very supportive of and caring toward me as well (even after a 3 a.m. text a few weeks ago...)
http://forums.psychcentral.com/roman...s-their-t.html
http://forums.psychcentral.com/psych...nger-term.html