My violent and abusive dad died when I was 16. I don't miss him.

I never wrote him a letter....but my counselor did tell him to go visit his grave and tell him what I needed to say. It was February 2011 and I was the only one there.

I felt better for a while. But new things have popped up since I moved to a new part of the country, and I feel I need to do it again.