I moderate one. It is self propelled, (no professionals are present). I think that is what makes it work because without a therapist or psychologist, it cuts down on the anxiety of being judged.
When we do get a new person we welcome them by assigning a buddy. They do not have to participate. In most cases they express great relief at both how easy attending was and that other people do experience the same thing. I myself had felt for the first time some sense of being normal at the knowledge i wasnt alone.
A common experience is that for many who attend it is the only time they get out and only opportunity to get social.
We discourage people meeting for dinner before or after for the very reason it may exclude people. Instead we open up quite early to encourage socialization. But, many have made aquaintances and get together outside of the group.
Weprobably are up to 50 members but at any one group we average 10 to 12
As you can see I'm a huge proponent of support groups. Not all are a fit though. Imyselfcould not do a professionally moderated group.
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