Thank you so much for sharing that i feel for you have you met people that make you feel comfortable with yourself or the same as them? I can understand what it's like to feel different and having to be alert incase you say or do something that makes you stand out more.

I fully believe that as i know ADHD'ers who would drop everything for someone in a heartbeat and are the most generous, loving, sympathetic people i know. I understand why you'd play it safe though i hope you have someone you can be 100% yourself with.

Thank you again

Claire