Hi Kelly,

I am glad you are seeking advice on how to fix this issue and to support your boyfriend. Like your boyfriend, I am insecure; however, I am extraordinarily passive so I never reach out for self assurance like he does. Since I rely entirely on others to gauge my self worth (I know this is wrong and I am beginning to work on "me"...), I have allowed a nearly six year relationship with my fiance to fall apart in the absence of the support I needed but did not know how to address. Your awareness will benefit the both of you-- I wish you so much luck and love in your relationship.