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Originally Posted by precaryous
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Lizzy-
I'm glad you are able to even look at "moving on" with this T.
It seems to me, though, that you are the one who "learned a hard lesson." If she learned any lesson at all....it was at your expense...which still makes me mad, tbh.
I hope it helps you to know....your situation helped me in my therapy. I brought your situation up in my therapy and expressed my fears about the same thing happening to me....that T's shouldn't introduce comfort then withdraw it without explanation ....no discussion...that if that's the plan, let me know right now....anyway, it cleared the air early in our relationship. You helped me.
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I don't want to hijack this thread, but thank you so much for this! I was angry during my last session and she said no one has ever taken it as hard as I have and she was sorry. I asked her if she talked to them about it. She said something like "we don't have to talk about everything." What? I thought that's what therapy was all about. She's trying to get me to talk, but says we don't need to if it's convenient for her. That's how I took it.