I do not agree with this philosophy, there has been certain things that have happened in my life that makes me unable to love myself. I know that my self esteem will never get to a point where I would be comfortable with myself, but that does not mean that I would broadcast it to potential relationships. I try to be a very generous person, I always take myself last for others simply because it is in my best interests. But, despite that, nothing comes out of it, simply because my self esteem is not high enough for their standards. Why does it have to be this way? What is wrong with acknowledging that you value yourself less in comparison to others?