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Old Oct 03, 2015, 08:58 PM
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I relate to feeling like the separation occurs within a marriage well before divorce. I don't relate to having 'no feelings' since I'm the one that filed. For my own situation in divorce, love just wasn't enough. It was a tough decision, for me to make. There were children involved. His behavior towards me was heartbreaking during marriage. It's taken a heck of a lot of therapy and support groups, mostly online but sometimes in person to come to terms with what I went through.
I can relate to the idea of when it's over, it's over. However, when there are kids involved, it's not that simple.
I can relate to growing apart, and suddenly realizing there wasn't a solid foundation to begin with. As mentioned about interests not being the same.
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