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skittles said:
a little nudity doesnt bother me at times... but sometimes when me and my b/f r watching a movie together and theres nudity of female it makes me annoyed... i look at him and say do u you have to look at that..... u want her more then me huh.... of course he says "no."....... but i cant help to think he does...... for those actresses have nice slim bodys and perfect breasts .... makes me sick....
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I hear you......... and I too have said those types of things to my husband when a sexy half dressed actress comes on the TV from the show we have been viewing and he looks - he is doing better now, he will look away when their attire (or lack of it) is way out there and might just get his pants a stirring - if you know what I mean.
FYI - You know I never felt sick or jealous of another female until after My husband went through his lusting / porn addiction stage for 10 years.... now I can seem to get rid of the fear of beautiful sexy females, my fear has lessoned over the years with work, but never the less it is still there.
.... a part of me hates my husband for creating such a fear in me.
But over all my husband is considerate of my feelings toward racy shows seen at home or at the movies, but he does have his own set of "viewing standards" that he will fall into if I am not around - I try not to ask.
He is careful to be watchful for to much raw sexuality when young ones are around...... I still have to work on the violence thing with him when little ones are around for he gets lost in all the action that he often forgets to change the channel.
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