I've had nothing but problems with this BPD female friend of mine and I've finally had enough and told her how I feel in a polite, yet firm manner while she insists on behaving like a child and lashing out at me. I've been nothing but nice and caring to her, yet she is mean to me over every slight mistake that I make and it's gotten to the point that I'm afraid to even tell her about my feelings let alone develop any kind of closeness with her.

I don't wish to rehash every little thing about us so I'll include a link from another thread that I made awhile back in the "partners and caregivers of people with personality disorders" forum:

http://forums.psychcentral.com/partn...ining-her.html

Below, I'll include pictures of our conversation in my Gmail inbox so that you all can let me know: did I react too harshly? Am I the bad person that she makes me out to be? Tell me yourself.