well t since i did not finish my homework yet, i did work on it twice though, i guess i won't be texting you tomorrow asking to talk on thursday. i really need to get myself back on the every 2 weeks schedule anyway money-wise. My h is a little annoyed with me that I have gone 3 weeks in a row. I wish I could just tell him it is what it is I need to do what I need to do for ME and he needs to let me figure out how to pay for it. Because I will. I am already half-planning, but haven't shared it with him yet, I can still go weekly for now while I feel like it is helping me to do so and use my credit card for the time being. I put a set amount from each paycheck into my separate therapy account, so I figure I could just pay that amount to my credit card every paycheck, and then pay the rest off in January when the overtime starts at work. It won't be that terrible much interest. It'd be worth it anyway to me. They're predicting even more overtime than last year, because the company I work for just bought another similar company and we'll have a ton of new members to sign up. So it shouldn't be a problem. I don't anticipate wanting to do weekly for much longer anyway.... why am I so hesitant to just TELL my hubby what I want to do? I work full time I should not have to ask his permission but he acts like I do.