that would be easy to do if my mother had actual straight forward wishes that stayed the same but her mind and her mood changes fairly easily and she can be a very hurtful and disrespectful person.

she does care about me and I don't thinks she cares so much that I am doing this she cares what other people think of me....and how it might effect her legally which I have tried to tell her several times there is nothing about any of this that will effect her in a negative way legally at all. She just does not know how this works and she doesn’t agree with it.

But she has never once forbid to do it in her house. So frankly I feel like I do have a legal right to keep doing this .....even if it is just for the fact that I want to get out of this house so that I can live on my own and live my own life.

Even when I go out of my way to be respectful to her of what she wants from me, it is often met with criticism and negativity. I NEVER about one thing in my life feel accepted or feel like i am good enough in her eyes.

And this is just another example of that to me. I know she is doing a lot by helping me and my boyfriend by giving us a place to stay but she seems like she noses into things that are none of her business and she always an opinion about what is going on and I get that everyone does. But I even try to respectfully ask her to stop that what she is saying hurts my feelings.

and she does not care! she has even told me at points that she does not. And for what because I grew up? cause I started viewing the world differently then she does. That a harsh thing to do to someone.

Frankly I feel like no matter what I do in my life it will never be good enough to her....so where as I do understand what you guys are getting at....I am trying to tell you I always try to be kind and respectful to my mother. But it is not really as simple as you all want to make it out to be.