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pachyderm said:

I have a bit of trouble with this. He is choosing to feel bad. Uh, yeah. Bad on him.

More accurate (IMO): I'm afraid that if I reject him, he'll be hurt and then he will hurt me.

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we're responsible for our own perceptions are we not - ultimately? there are no buttons but the ones we create, imo.

though i agree your scenario seems likely from what i observed of the therapee on the show.