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Originally Posted by kala83
I am not really trying to talk about it she is the one that wants to speak about this.....in detail......I simply wanted to be respectful to her and tell her I was doing this, cause I wantd to be honest with her about where the money was coming from.
she is the one that wants to go into detail with what I am doing not me.
and NO I am not going to stop doing this and stop making money she NEVER asked me to stop doing what i am doing she is using emtional abuse to make me feel ashamed of what I am doing so that I will quiet and I will be made to feel badly about what I am doing.
I understand that your all points of view on this are different then mine. But I am not breaking any household rules by doing what I am, in this situation I am respecting her wishes. She didn't tell me to not do it....out of respect I am going to go find another job while I do this one to save more money and to make her happy but I am being respectful of her and her wishes but I am also standing up for myself and what I believe is alight, I am not opposing her if she didn't want to me to do this then she should say that.
She is not, I am not doing anything illegal which is what SHE has said she cares most about.
it seems more like you all are trying to speak on my mother's behalf then her own. And express you wishes and that is in correct on yours all part. You should not speak for others, so sorry again but you all are only expressing your own personal views and I don't agree with it STILL.
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Well if your mom is OK with it, if it isn't against her wishes, why are you asking us what we think?