Marriage doesn't fix anything or make a cheater true. Neither do children for that matter. I would say that in this situation it is perfectly acceptable to refuse his proposal and I would probably take it a step further and end the relationship. You deserve to be happy with someone who is focused on making a life with you, who treats you like a queen, and is serious about being your partner.
~Seanachai~
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