Hi,
My wife is a teacher, too. She went through a long period of depression a few years ago, and had to take leave for a year so she could recover. She went back to work after that, with counselling support for another year, and medication up until this day.
During all that time I supported her in every way I could, and I still do so, up to this day. But I have to admit, it's taking its toll on me, 'cause I've got my own issues as well, issues that I had to put aside so I could try and help heal her.
Sometimes I dread doing the most simple things, even grocery shopping feels like such a drag sometimes, that I wish I'd never have to get out the house ever again.
But then I push myself out, and get things done. And when they're done, I feel a little better.
I can only imagine what you and your family are going through, and I really wish I could say those "magic wise words" that make all the pain go away.
Sadly, it's not that simple...
But all I can say is: things get tough, but they also do get better, eventually.
I'm still waiting for things to improve for us here, and sometimes, waiting is all we can do.
I hope things get better for you soon!
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