I guess at the moment I haven't been placed in a situation where an affair would be possible. I don't want to just go out and get laid. I want it to be meaningful with the one I love and care for. But at the same token if the opportunity where to manifest itself then I'm not totally sure what path I would take. I don't want an affair. I know the consequences and I know how badly it hurts. I'd rather call it a day and get divorced. But in the same respect I fully understand why they happen and cannot necessarily blame the parties involved. When children, finances, disability etc are taken into consideration it's not so straightforward.