Thats exactly how I feel about it, always feel like a burden. But in my situation the people I have to help usually make comments about how tired they are after watching my kids and how one of them was a hard time taking care of, so it kind of so it kind of reinforces my feelings if being a burden, which makes me not want to ask for help until I am at a breaking point again.

Im not a single mom, so props to you. My boyfriend works two jobs and its rare that the kids are with him. So it feels like I am doing it on my own.