Hmm -


I believe these two issues are related (my relationship one & women support one), they seem to have the same common denominator controlling them and me with unresolved fear from within - reason being mentioned by me in the other thread.

http://forums.psychcentral.com/showf...&o=365&fpart=3

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I HATE to admit this (out loud)...... but I think my sadness in this area is only compounded by the inner thoughts I have that he, my husband, does not really love me any more or that he would prefer some one younger & sexier than I am, hence why I get so hurt when rejected over sex.

These FEARS are not unfounded, for I once had to compete with what his eyes saw then lusted over in his mind and in the end fulfilled with his body - for ten long years - now I cannot seem to escape the wound / doubts those years placed in me.

I HATE than someone I was supposed to be able to TRUST did this do me, created such a horror in me.
... and yes, I know this was more about him and his issue and not me, but it still hurts.

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