ok again i havent finished reading this thread but i had some thoughts on the idea being discussed that people can be trained to respond sexually to certain images/concepts/objects. i have no idea if thats true. i do think if you have an inate sexual response to a certain, lets say object, then repeatedly viewing that and getting excited probably strengthens that reaction. however... and this is huge for me cos i do not speak about personal sexual things... i do read erotic stories and i have read many heterosexual ones despite being gay. ive done so both to see if i can have any positive sexual response to a male character and because sometimes i start something and cant tell what genders are involved and it gets interesting so i go on. ive found time and again though that when i get to the bit where its obviously talking about a male most of the time it just turns me right off unless i can ignore that part. so... if im excited before that part and i keep trying to get excited during it but cant then where does that leave the idea that porn can train your body to respond to things you re not innately already somewhat excited by?? i dont know...
hope im making sense. im getting tired here with all this reading! :P
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