I think your focus on your career is a wonderful thing. Keep doing that. Then right person would come along. Your ex doesn't sound like a catch. He didn't have his own place either and you have to have sex in public places or porn shops. No not a catch. This new guy doesn't have his own place either.

You don't need to have s house by the way especially with no kids. I do have a kid, adult now, but I never owned a house either . I was on my own, never lived with parents but I rented. It's affordable. My daughter Is married but they also don't own anything! You can rent or buy a small place. I am renting now. My BF is renting too. There are a lot of people who don't own property for many reasons but still enjoy their privacy .

Anyways I believe you can do better than your ex and this dude

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