I had similar feelings about my ex T. I would tell her I felt like she was frustrated with me, etc. and she would always say it's the transference. But, I now don't think that was it. I think I can read people fairly well and I think our relationship was difficult.

It's taken me awhile to come to this point but I agree with ex T. and new T. that some therapists can only take you so far and then you need a different approach/person. I think I was supposed to go through the intense transference with ex T. but now it's time to experience someone the opposite of my mom to heal completely.

I think you will know what you need after you talk to her about your feelings. Most importantly, remember YOU know what you need.