When I had college psych in high school, the one thing that stuck with me with most was the definition of normal "what the majority does the majority of the time". To that end, normal is not only subjective, but it is constantly in flux. There really is no normal. But, yes, I see the point. It is hard to be a slice of pumpernickel in a white bread world. Personally, I would rather be the pumpernickel. Interestingly, though, if you look closely enough, you see through the polished veneer and all the nicks and scratches that make us unique stand out. It's an individual choice to see that or the reality they try to project. I find the nicks and scratches to be more appealing and think that it helps me relate to people better rather than focusing on the spit and polish.

~S~