Exactly, I stayed in a mentally abusive relationship for 16 years. During that time he had numerous inappropriate raltionships with women and I tried to ignore them and tell myself nothing was happening. I now know for a fact my suspicions were true.

His behaviour took a huge toll. Not only that I could not trust the man but that I blamed myself and was always wondering how I might have prevented these 'friendships'. My mental health suffered greatly, my parenting choices were affected. My entire life was tainted by his cheating. I wasted 16 years of my life feeling like **** about myself and near constant hurt. Don't do the same. PLEASE.