kim my dear friend...........i don't EVER want to hear you say anything like that about a circus EVER!.........you are one of the most loving , beautiful human beings i have ever had the pleasure to know.........i know that at these forums alone you will find many people who will understand and accept you for the fantastic woman that you are........you have many gifts kim.......you need to stay and share them with the rest of us........teach us kim.........teach us to understand that it doesn't matter what sex you were born.......its what you do with the life given you.......and you my sweet friend, i know that you have difficult days but keep smiling ......you bring joy to my life and I LOVE YOU!