Quotation marks are not meant to be used for the purpose of emphasis.

Where I saw you as sarcastic was mainly where you said "angers and all". Do you really think it's useful long term to be not aware of what the source of an emotion is? Not that I see anger as a "bad" thing but this experience here as described really took my attention.

Anyway, I don't think I have a full solution to everything yet or I would not be posting here, simple as that.