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Originally Posted by devrillia
I have been reading yout experiences which are a carbon copy of what I am experiencing with my husband. The cat food is a prime example and I am equally at a loss. I discovered something that seemed to fit the pattern and it is front lobular behavioural dementia. Have a look and see what you think. I would lime to stay in touch with you as it us so comforting to know that I am not alone/going crazy but at my wits end. I am too old to be branching out on my own but any clues as to how to cope with the frustration and despair of not being able to have a simple transaction and the constant tantrums that come so unexpectedly, would be so aelcome
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Same here. We are less than a year in to our CHF adventure and he just had a pm/icd. He has been mean spirited for some time before that but now it's intolerable. I too, hide out in my "studio" which is my bedroom/sewing room and he makes a point to come in there and accuses me of stupid stuff. The other day he told me to roll the windows up in the car as I pulled in to the garage. I pointed out that when we got in the car earlier, the windows had been down. He didn't say anything but about 30 minutes later he came in my bedroom and proceeded to rip in to me like you can't believe. His daughter phoned the other day to see if she could come over. I told her she's always welcome and didn't need to ask. She was quiet for a brief time and then said what she was really asking is if it was "safe" to come over because she didn't want her dad screeching at her for stupid stuff. <sigh> Of course, he thinks nothing is wrong with him and we're all picking on him. I would love to keep in touch with you ladies and see how things are working out for you and how you are coping. Thanks