Maybe I'm just weird but I think it's kind of nice your family takes thing so seriously. They are listening and know these things are serious and physical. If I called my sister I'd get told to pull up the boot straps. My mom wouldn't say anything but worry 24/7 until I was fine.

It is kind of weird but in a nice way. It's like she cares enough to want to be able to tell if the symptoms are greater because of the PMS. Can you ask her about it and if it bothers you too much tell her you rather she didn't do that.

you should ask to be assessed for PMDD. I don't know if things have improved since I struggled with that issue but maybe the medical world has wised up to hormonal changes, BP, and medicine interactions.