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Originally Posted by ladytiger
I was apt hunting for a year getting ideas. Once I get settled into this job I'm gonna look for a few more then make a decision since I know what I'll be looking for and wanting. My ex could have done things better and different in his own life before me he promised me a home and still haven't gotten a home.
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Your ex couldn't figure out how to get himself an apartment, nevermind a home. Guys don't usually get homes for women they're not married to. But promising stuff doesn't take any effort or cost any money.
You need the experience of managing a place of your own, like a small apartment. Then, someday, when you meet a decent guy with something on the ball, maybe the two of you will get married and eventually invest in a home together, if a home is something you would like.
This new guy you met is paying child support on 4 kids. Keep hanging out with him and you'll probably never have anything. He loves where his wife lives because he can't afford to move out of there. There is a pattern in your behavior. You hang around men who have zippo to offer - guys who are losers. Aim for better and you'll have a better life. At age 29 with a job and no kids of your own, you are a good catch.