T and I had a very productive session recently (I'd say our most productive), but he had said something that really hurt my feelings. We were talking about being present in the moment with each other and I had said that to be 100% present I would need to be friends with the person/know a little bit about them. To which T replied, "I know you want me to be your friend, but we're never going to be friends. I'm not your friend".

I completely understand this--he legally can't be my friend and I would never want him to put his career on the line, I was just trying to explain why it was hard for me to be totally present and vulnerable. Ugh.

What have you done when T said something that hurt your feelings?