Daystrom, it's interesting that you bring this up because my reaction was anger and I had the thought of cutting my T out of my life (although I don't want to now, it was a knee jerk reaction in the moment). I also realized that I feel like my T is screwing around with my emotions a bit and I don't know what to do...
He's been very good about setting boundaries but he doesn't always keep to them and so I'm confused about 1) what those boundaries truly are and 2) what does it mean/look like to operate within those boundaries he's set. I guess I should bring this (and the fact that he hurt my feelings) up during our next session.
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Originally Posted by Daystrom
This kind of thing would really piss me off and I'd probably stay angry and end up dropping her.
I've cut people out of my lives before when I thought they were screwing around with me or taking advantage of me. Ironically it's one of the things I'm trying to fix.
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