I'm not very good at confronting my T the moment she says something that hurts me. I instantly cry. I shut down. And I will change the subject. But I don't actually process what happened until later. Once I do process it, I will confront her. Sometimes I email her, other times I wait till our new session. And then we talk it out. We talk about our perspective, our intentions, and then feelings.

And my Ts have hurt my feelings a few times. Ex-T said I've had a lot of one night stands with my fiance Group T told me I'm being resistant. Current T has hurt my feelings too, but it wasn't a phrase that upset me. It's more her actions.