I understand your situation, however you keep saying you're being respectful to her and you actually aren't. You're not respecting her views at all, yet you say you do. She has valid concerns, whether you're ready to hear that or not. She's doing what any rational minded mother would do and you're getting angry at her for that. If I were you, I would stop the webcamming and I would take her advice and get another job. The taxes that you'll have to pay for being self employed are a lot, in the thousands. And you cant hide from the IRS so the tax money will chip away big time at any amount you save. Not to mention there is always the chance of being recognized once you stop webcamming, whether its at a job or just at the store. Its not worth it. You really need to think about this. Not only that, but once your pictures or videos are on the internet its very difficult to get them completely erased forever. There are so many stories of women with respectful jobs being fired because someone recognized them at work from years ago in porn, whether its their coworker or a customer. And you also don't get any benefits from that job. I wouldn't want my daughter doing that under my roof either and I would be concerned.