Your husband definitely over-reacted to the neighbors complaint about about the barking dog. He could have calmly dealt with that issue by maybe bringing the dog inside. He has to realize how annoying and disruptive a barking dog is to other people who reasonably expect peace and quiet in their own homes.

Had it been my dog I would even have entertained the notion of getting rid of the dog. However this does nothing to address the problem of his anger issues. I don't suppose he is the type of person who would visit a professional about his anger. But you never know unless you can talk to him when he is calm. Also there is the thought that if he keeps yelling all the time that someone will call social services on him by someone who is concerned with your welfare.

I wish you all the best and truly hope you can find the money, assistance and courage to leave this abusive situation if things do not not change soon.