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Originally Posted by Atypical_Disaster
Interesting post and perspective. Feelings aren't something I'm at all good at articulating and I'm okay with admitting that(ENTJ here, HA!), so this was an interesting read as a fellow Narcissist.
I've read in a few places that borderlines tend to be attracted to Narcissists... Eh, I think borderlines and myself have some of the strongest personality clashes. It just doesn't work on either side.
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Based on my experience, both my last two exes and a former close female friend with benefits had BPD. They were attracted to me almost to a point of obsession early on, but the first time I said something wrong and triggered their BPD symptoms, things went downhill until I had to let them go. It also doesn't help matters that I also have bipolar and am therefore, prone to saying or doing stupid things during mania haha
So yeah, I think BPDs are perfect for physical relationships or short term flings with narcissists, but they're terrible for anything long term and serious.