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Originally Posted by divine1966
If you two enjoy each other's company I suggest you do make an effort to meet. I would warn you against talking for too long before meeting as others posted when they met there was nothing there and it's painful. I dated someone long distance. It didn't work out in a long run as it was too difficult working and having kids and date long distance for both of us ( he was a very nice man though) but when we first started talking we maybe talked a month before meeting. You might want to meet half way if it is less expensive.
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Only a month? Almost seems like jumping the gun a bit- we were planning on trying to webcam a bit first beforehand which we were both a bit shy to get around to doing I think. I can understand the possibility of there being nothing there which could be quite- bad, I guess. Lately I don't know how to feel and maybe I should just accept the idea that I'll probably be alone for the rest of my life. Sure I'll probably have moments of bonding here and there but I tend to think eventually everyone leaves me so I don't see the point of being upset and insecure at the idea that someone would leave.
I do though anyway. I'm usually told when it comes to this type of stuff to find local girls and it's not like I couldn't- I don't think I am unattractive. Maybe just having a boring personality and a desire for creating a comfortable family life with someone. Not to sound like I want to give up on the girl I am seeing online atm of course.