OH MY GOD if I may say. I can not blame you, but I think you never should have married again after 26 yrs with the other. Your, in a way of speaking, stuck now, unless you file for divorce. Your husband is totally out of control. I hate to tell you, if you don't know it, 90% of Bipolar marriages end in divorce. Search Google. I am married, but only because I got diagnosed, and take meds that work. My wife had it hard for 20 yrs for sure. I honestly believe she came very close to divorcing me. I'm the one who is Bipolar.