I am always second guessing what people will say, i set myself up with imagination. just live the day and don't worry what others will think or say about you. just have fun enjoying yourself throughout the day. to project what ifs get us all in trouble. it is so much easier to drop the guard on stuff that i think might happen and just relax with what is around me. i think too much and get myself in trouble. just enjoy your environment and support group and let be tomorrow that isn't even here yet. we all do it so i speak from experience. life is so much easier. blessings.