In my experience, the very people you want to get away from have the most to teach you.

The temptation will be strong to:

*Block out those reactions that "hit a nerve."

*Run away from discord.

Not in your best interests at all, though the fearful and constricted part of you will shout very loud for those fleeing instincts. They are old baggage that can be left behind, like steamer trunks at a train station leading to a destination you never really wanted...

Just my opinion.